Howard related because he has kids.. -a couple I know (girl and guy) have a 4 yr old boy. Last month the guy calls 911 for domestic violence , cops come and take her for a scratch on his face. She was released from jail with no charge for an "insufficient complaint". He gets a restraining order for him and their son, so he can have an upper hand in custody case. She has never had any history of violence. He claims she is an "unfit" parent and that's she's crazy..blah..blah. They both have lawyers now. Last year he gave her his old cell phone because he got a new one. The other day ,she found old sent texts, of him talking about hash, doing hash , selling and mailing hash to his friend out of state . My question for my Dawg Shed homey's is: Isn't this guy fucked now in this case? Her lawyer says this will destroy his case in court to be the fit parent . And it's a federal crime to mail drugs. Her lawyer says if he doesn't settle before trial , that her lawyer will destroy him.. Won't this guy get in trouble if he even thinks about walking up to a judge with all this dirt on him if he goes to court? What judge would give a guy full custody to (for all purposes)..a drug dealer ?