I was a bummer in the last one. He agreed to counseling. He also took pills that weekend. I am reporting Dr. it may get better, we shall see. Thanks to the few that care. The plan has always been daughter goes to college, and we move back to Europe. If we can do that and like each other it will work. But who knows we may hate each other. thanks for listening. He did throw me a kick ass surprise party for my birthday. again thanks for any advice.