Ok this is the last place I should say this....

Discussion in 'The Bar' started by Tish, Sep 28, 2012.

  1. Tish

    Tish VIP Extreme Gold

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    But I want to get a divorce, I can't believe this is happening to me. All he does is travel, spend tons of money and now bitching about college prices. He is so funny. Always on the go. Takes us on great vacations. But we don't spend anytime together anymore. Fight all the time. He says terrible things. What do I do lawyer wise? Will I get enough to start a new life? I'm shocked it came to this, but would appreciate any help. Especially anyone who's been through this. My daughter who was our glue kept us together. She's off to college soon. Sorry to be a bummer. I just don't know where to start.

    eta. There is no cheating, we just have nothing in common. I'm sad. I thought we would be together forever.
     
  2. Daveindiego

    Daveindiego Confirmed Internet Legend Banned User

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    Bail.

    Time to go.

    Are you hot?
     
  3. nazdrowie

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    that sucks
     
  4. wetback

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    Fuck off
     
  5. DrivenByDemons

    DrivenByDemons Spinoff Jesus Gold

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    not sure if srs
     
  6. Reggae Mistress

    Reggae Mistress Old Catcher's Mitt

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    I'm sorry. I don't have anything to offer except positive thoughts. :console:
     
  7. Napoleon V2

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    boobie pic so we can tell you're being sincere?
     
  8. freds

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    any pee on the beagle?
     
  9. Avery

    Avery Well-Known Member Banned User

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    What did he say that was so terrible?
     
  10. MONK

    MONK The fuck? Staff Member Chimp In Charge

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    OMG Hai Tish!! :hw:
     
  11. Tish

    Tish VIP Extreme Gold

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    I could do more, maybe I have become boring. I just turned into a mom. And he turned into a glory day guy.
     
  12. idiotbox

    idiotbox Looking for a dime and found a quarter. VIP

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    this is a great place to come for advice since everyone is so well adjusted.
     
  13. Shine

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    If you are hot, bail. If not hot, stay
     
  14. Daveindiego

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    :scratch:

    That just sounds wrong. Can't you see this woman is in pain?


    Still waiting on response to hotness. All the mom talk is kind of starting to tune me out.
     
  15. Daveindiego

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    Exactly, couldn't have said it better myself.
     
  16. Acid

    Acid Shat Dead

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    Do you love him and are you happy?

    THATS all that matters..
     
  17. Daveindiego

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    I'm playing with my pee hole. :smile:
     
  18. Boss Ono

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    Don't burn your bridges just yet. You need to have as many discreet hookups first as possible to see if he really is worth leaving behind. Not me though. I just want to read about it. :coffee:
     
  19. The Cunt

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    Been married for 21 years this feb.. Try counseling first
     
  20. Tish

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    We are in Destin. Having fun. Then he just started saying shit about my parents. My parents love him. His mommies bat shit crazy. And I still love and I am always polite to her. He took a oxy whatever tonight. Maybe that's part of it. I just can't see getting past this. We were on the beach and he started insulted me. I love the beach and hate fighting, it's just so weird to think of being apart. I'll be 43 on sat. We met when I was 19. Sigh...I am that girl. I fucked up.