But I want to get a divorce, I can't believe this is happening to me. All he does is travel, spend tons of money and now bitching about college prices. He is so funny. Always on the go. Takes us on great vacations. But we don't spend anytime together anymore. Fight all the time. He says terrible things. What do I do lawyer wise? Will I get enough to start a new life? I'm shocked it came to this, but would appreciate any help. Especially anyone who's been through this. My daughter who was our glue kept us together. She's off to college soon. Sorry to be a bummer. I just don't know where to start. eta. There is no cheating, we just have nothing in common. I'm sad. I thought we would be together forever.