Online dating Single Moms who say "my kids are my top priority"

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  1. Lucky Pierre

    Lucky Pierre Well-Known Member

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    and "we are a packaged deal"

    Do they think we need to be told this? It's insulting.
     
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    It all has to do with the quality of males she has been exposed to. If she has to say this, she has been a sperm donor and is probably not worth your time.
     
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    How does a female donate sperm?
     
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    Mlaw Quite Contrarian Gold

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    then she shouldn't be dating
     
  5. Lucky Pierre

    Lucky Pierre Well-Known Member

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    "Hi, even though my kids are staying with my sister while we're on this romantic weekend getaway and your cock is buried deep in my pussy... I'm really thinking about my kids back home sitting on the couch playing with their tablets with Nickelodeon playing in the background... I hope they're okay."
     
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    crazypreacher Hey yo

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    Pretty sure he meant dumpster.
     
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    So, basically, single moms shouldn't date?
    Or are you saying that her man should be number one and the kids she's responsible for raising should come second?
     
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    I thought this would be a pic thread :mad:
     
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    Thank you CP!!!!
     
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    This is like a Twilight Zone thread. If you have a kid, they are number one. They can't cook, drive, walk, and are entirely dependent on you. I sort of thought normal people understood that. Anyone who wouldn't put their kid first should have their kids taken away from them.
     
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    what do you think, man?
     
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    I hate it when people on dating sites have their kids as/in their pics. That's fucking weird.

    If you're a parent, your child is obviously the most important thing in your life. That doesn't mean they need to be plastered all over your profile. I'm interested in getting to know YOU. Not your kid. That comes later. MUCH later.

    It's also dumb when guys have pics of themselves with other chicks. May be your sister, but I don't know. Regardless, I don't wanna look at your pics and see you with your arms around a broad. Just poor taste for the venue. (I'm sure girls do it too).
     
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    I don't know. That's why I asked her. She should splain herself or I shall be forced to expose her to some uncouth language.
     
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    crazypreacher Hey yo

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    I agree with op. It is insulting. No shit the kid that came out of you and shares your blood comes first.
     
  15. Lucky Pierre

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    There doesn't need to be a ranking. Of course the welfare of the children will always be a priority but what a woman is saying is "you'll always be last in my life". Guess what? Quite often the kids shouldn't be the center of everything. Helicopter mothers who obsess over every detail. A healthy, happy relationship for Mom is the best environment for kids to grow up in, not Mom scolding every man about how unimportant he will always be.

    Oh yeah, kids move out someday too.
     
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    The state doesn't want them. Nobody wants them..... What do we do with all these "unwanted children"?
     
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    late term abortion - up to 400 months.
     
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    Of course, there is no moral objection to this???? Religious or otherwise.........
     
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    To me, that is a good thing. Means the broad shouldn't be clingy, which is good, cause I got my own kid and shit to deal with. If it is because of lousy dudes in her past, then that is great, cause I'm a friggin sweetheart.
     
  20. Lucky Pierre

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    This is what they think we think by putting that line in their profile, "You don't need to feed your child, just throw them in the closet for a few days while we go do a cocaine binge at some hotel"
     
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