People that leave a mark.

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  1. Slippy

    Slippy Well-Known Member VIP Gold

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    For reasons far beyond my comprehension, I still am permanently affected by the guy I spent 6 weeks in Vietnam with.

    He emailed me today, and I felt like a little girl who's nipples were first touched.

    Hadn't seen him for years before, never seen him since........but I dream of him sometimes.

    I wonder why somebody like that leaves such a huge fucking mark on your psyche?
     
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    Butcher ?

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    Because he love you long time.

    It happens
     
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    Slippy Well-Known Member VIP Gold

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    He's a Canadian from Australia that I hung out with in Vietnam.

    Your poor interpretation of Asian dialect does not apply. :no:
     
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    You're hot for him, plain & simple.
     
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    Slippy Well-Known Member VIP Gold

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    but thanks for replying - this thread has no legs..........I was just thinking / typing out loud
     
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    Slippy Well-Known Member VIP Gold

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    That is really sweet of you to think and say, but no way. He's fucked his way through Vietnam, and sent me the pictures.

    I do not measure up to those women. Guy is sexy as hell, I'm no more than a mark on his bedpost.
     
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    Because you're a mental case. Pure and simple.
     
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    Slippy Well-Known Member VIP Gold

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    Solid theory. :hat:
     
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    It had to be stated :toptip:
     
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    How did you wind up in Vietnam?
     
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    drafted
     
  13. Slippy

    Slippy Well-Known Member VIP Gold

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    Hey, your honesty - and stalking of my every word - is noted and appreciated. :hat:

    I accept my mental state. Do you accept yours?
     
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    Slippy Well-Known Member VIP Gold

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    My marriage ended at the same time as his, and he happened to win a shitload of money at the same time.

    He flew me over there, and we spent a month and a half together. On his dime.
     
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    Slippy Well-Known Member VIP Gold

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    ohhhhhhhhh, and to elaborate - I guess Vietnam is an easy place to run to, from Australia, to get away from your crazy life/breakup? :dontknow:

    I have no idea why he chose to go there, himself. I chose to go there 'cause it was a free trip with a hot guy, at a really bad time in my life.
     
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    My rebound relationship affected me that way. I know what you mean. Everytime I hear from her I practically effortlessly bust a nut. Could just be "hi"...
     
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    I cherish mine :toptip:
     
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    Slippy Well-Known Member VIP Gold

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    That's the only thing that makes sense to me. I was a wreck..........and sooooooo fucking hurt and broken.

    Not to mention, I've been a mom since I was 16. To get 6 weeks to myself to get past shit, and have some time to recover.........was like moving heaven and hell. I'm not sure I could ever do it again....it took sooooooo much effort, and money and arranging, to get all of my shit taken care of.

    But I did it. And it helped. And it's a memory and experience nobody can ever take away from me.

    I miss him almost every day..........but not in my "real" world. Just in the world where I can be myself, and a nutjob, and carefree - for a month and a half.
     
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    Normal people scare the fuck out of me...true story.
     
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    doughhead63 OD'd on life itself Staff Member

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    The people in this thread are all top tier Dawg's posters:cheer:

    Good morning...and, interesting thread.