I felt it wouldn't hurt and decided to buy one. Sadly I used my amazon account to purchase it and a few other toys, big mistake. I have had the amazon account for 8 + years and now those toys appear in the history.. So don't do that. OK so about the toy, we have used it 3 times or so and the wife says .... Get rid of it. I personally got a bit more excited as I slide the apparatus over my shaft and penetrated the wife. But she said it was a bust and liked the feel of the regular cock - the extra gurth. I guess realness wins out, over fullness in this case. Wife has been plenty satisfied normally but I wanted to try something new. She has always had vaginal orgasms on a regular basis during sex , something gf's of truly big dicked guys sometimes never experienced ( we've known the couples). Grass isn't always greener boys....now go enjoy life.