I am a female & one of the things that puzzles me about Howard is his constant jerking off. I don't know any males who talk openly about it & I'm wondering if this is in any way normal. I wd think a married guy wdnt do it that much if ever. I mean what's the sense in being married if one is not getting regular sex? When he used to talk about it years ago, I figured Allison was a bitch, didn't care about him & was too busy with the kids but this is a still fairly new, supposedly hot marriage & since Beth is bought & paid for, why does he need to still do it? This is a serious question.