so a buddy of mine gets blow jobs from women that are not his wife. i told him its cheating and he argued with me that its not. heres his logic: he says his wife stopped giving him blow jobs a few years ago. they still have sex regularly, shes just not putting anything in her mouth. so he tells me that since she wont blow him, its not cheating because its not like hes getting something that his wife is offering. shes not blowing him, so why can he get it elsewhere? he gets sex from his wife, so he claims that since he CAN get that from her, it'd be wrong to get sex elsewhere. do you agree?