Question for all married people

Discussion in 'The Bar' started by Shivvy, Sep 23, 2014.

  1. Shivvy

    Shivvy Well-Known Member

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    so a buddy of mine gets blow jobs from women that are not his wife. i told him its cheating and he argued with me that its not.

    heres his logic: he says his wife stopped giving him blow jobs a few years ago. they still have sex regularly, shes just not putting anything in her mouth. so he tells me that since she wont blow him, its not cheating because its not like hes getting something that his wife is offering. shes not blowing him, so why can he get it elsewhere? he gets sex from his wife, so he claims that since he CAN get that from her, it'd be wrong to get sex elsewhere.

    do you agree?
     
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  2. Gwarn1

    Gwarn1 Single

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    Does his wife know?
     
  3. Shivvy

    Shivvy Well-Known Member

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    no
     
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    would he consider it cheating if she sucked some guy's cock ?

    if he says no, they are on the same playing field
     
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    Lotta guys do this....either work it out or move on IMO
     
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    Does he pay for them? Is he otherwise involved with the women?

    I am only asking this because if the answers to the above are "Yes" and "No" he will use that to rationalize his case.
     
  7. Gwarn1

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    Would she be upset if she found out
     
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    Is Mrs Shiv giving your buddy blowjobs
     
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    Fuck you, Shiv. Single people have valid opinions too. I hope your wife is out there blowing dudes based on your buddy's logic. :fil:
     
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    Gwarn1 Single

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    The raiders are shitty
     
  11. Shivvy

    Shivvy Well-Known Member

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    thats a good response. im supposed to have a beer with him tomorrow after work. im gonna ask that
     
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    Your wife sucked my dick. She doesn't consider it cheating :yes:
     
  13. Shivvy

    Shivvy Well-Known Member

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    from what he tells me he doesnt pay for them. i think these women are friends and/or coworkers
     
  14. Shivvy

    Shivvy Well-Known Member

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    :jj:
     
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    BTW, Shiv you're doing the right thing. We need to tell our brahs to get their heads out of their asses when it comes to shit like this.
     
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    @Satori Brah
     
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    1) It's cheating
    2) So what?
     
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  18. Mr. Potato Head

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    Does he give her a BBC? If not, would he be fine with her getting it elsewhere?
     
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  20. Mr. Potato Head

    Mr. Potato Head ~Would Like to Play~ Gold

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    What woman doesn't love just sucking a dick with no reward for them. Other than a mouthful of cum, of course.
     
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