Even though he's known to every Stern fan, there's very little info about his sexuality. While everyone says he's a fаg, there's very little evidence of him dating women or men in public. I have some questions and I hope someone, with better memory than mine, can provide some answers. 1) Was Ralph ever in a relationship with a woman? 2) Has he ever brought his "girlfriend" to the show? 3) Has anyone ever seen him in public with a woman? What about a man? 4) Is his relationship with Howard Stern also sexual in nature? Ralph has never, to the best of my knowledge, discussed his sexual experience on the show. While every other staffer has talked about their wife/gf/boyfriend, Ralph has never done such a thing. Weird? His whosdatedwho page is pretty funny as well: http://www.whosdatedwho.com/tpx_44098/ralph-cirella/ Sandra Bernhard & Sara Switzer are a lesbian couple and few years back, Sandra came on the show and said she and Sara fucked Ralph. Everyone knew it was a hoax and later it was revealed as a hoax. http://www.examiner.com/article/sandra-bernhard-3-way-with-howard-stern-pal-was-a-hoax So there's really no women linked to him. So what's your opinion of Ralph? Is he gay? Bi? Asexual? Is he Howard's secret lover? Is the reason why he hasn’t come out of the closet yet because he's still servicing Stern and is not dating anyone else? He's gotta be old now (50s?) and if he's gay, what's the waiting for? Being gay is accepted today more than ever so why is he still in the closet? Is his relationship with Stern the reason why he hasn’t come out yet?