While most of us have found and participated in this website as a way to vent our feelings of being misled and lied to by Howard, we've become a community. As with a typical community, we share much about ourselves, friends, and our families, much more than limited to Howard's latest marboe grab, and / or his vapid phony wife. Most often, with clever comments, good humor, and sometimes with very serious questions and requests for advice on other, non Howard related issues. Keeping the above in mind, I'd like to ask our community a few serious questions - are you with the person you're currently with because of real love or a sense of obligation, and not wanting to hurt the person you're with? Do you still have strong feelings for someone in your past - perhaps the one that got away? Do you wish you were with someone from your past, or someone you recently met? Do you love someone too much to leave, but not enough to feel like you should stay together?