So I've been married almost 17 years and it's just not there anymore. We were separated twice about 14-15 years ago and I'm still kicking myself for going back with her after the second time. There's just nothing left in my heart for her anymore and the only time I want to be near her is if I'm drunk and there's the possibility of busting a nut on her tits. We are basically roommates that have sex once or twice a month. Constant fighting about absolutely anything and everything. She makes a good deal more than me and makes it known quite regularly. Major problem: We have an almost 12 year old son with a pretty severe case of add who will be starting in an out-of-district school in about a week. I'm just so incredibly unhappy and even though I know I will be fucked financially, I really want out. I brought this up at his therapy appointment this past weekend (he wasn't there, it was just for us to talk to his therapist) and the therapist didn't know what to say other than we should try marriage counseling. I said I didn't want to. That just turned into me being a selfish asshole. So what does everyone think?