In big, bold letters on their profile: "NOT, repeat NOT looking for a hookup. If that's all you want, then you can just move on to the next profile". Then why the fuck are you even here? Tinder is a hookup app you stupid fuck. If that's not what you want, then stick with eHarmony or Match.com. It's like joining the gym and announcing, "I am NOT, repeat NOT here to exercise, let's make that point clear to begin with" "I thought I could meet a nice guy... then become friends first... then, you know, take it from there, see how things go as the relationship develops". Yeah, like that's going to happen.