I was talking with my fiancee yesterday and I think I said something about her being crabby in the morning or something. Just general criticism to keep her on her toes. Anyway...she says to me, well sometimes you act like a dick and I rub people the wrong way. I axed for an example (even though I know there are tons of times I was hoping she would forget them) So she says the other night when we went out to dinner with their whole family, her dumbass brother was an hour late to meet us, and I say out loud "I'm not waiting an hour for him" cuz he's a self-centered jackoff who thinks because he makes a lot of money that everyone should be on his schedule. Her mother was mad at him too. Everyone was but apparently my tone of voice when I said that came across as really douchey and the mother didn't appreciate it. I guess it's better that they find out now that I'm a dick, right? Or should I just keep my mouth shut and endure these annoying family situations?