So You Find Out Your Spouse Has Secret Credit Card Debt

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  1. Vyb

    Vyb serial chiller Gold

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    How do you handle THAT? :munch:







    Thanks. :hat:
     
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    Mr. Potato Head Darth Taterâ„¢ 2010 OG Gold

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    [OJ]It happens![/OJ]
     
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    Big D
     
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    Call her a cunt, move on
     
  5. Vyb

    Vyb serial chiller Gold

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    Is it legit grounds for Big D? :bigthink Or would the petitioner have to throw in some extra shit?
     
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    Vyb serial chiller Gold

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    Call her a cunt, pay it off, and move on? That's it? Keep a lock down on finances hereafter? :dontknow:

    We're talking low 5 figures, btw.
     
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    Is....your state.....a no-fault state?
     
  8. Vyb

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    Mrs. Tater would never. :eek: Would she?
     
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    MyLazyHand Russia and France Know What to Do

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    I worked with a guy who came to me in tears one day at work. He desperately needed money.

    He discovered that his wife had run up $40,000 in credit card debt, and had also embezzled $25,000 from her employer.

    I never did find out what she was doing with the cash. The two of them were bringing in $130,000+ per year!
     
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    My friend's state you mean? I dunno. :dontknow:

    Assume it is Tennessee. :facepalm:
     
  11. tickle

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    Mlaw probably has better insight but I believe that this is a major reason listed(secret debt/financial issues) for divorces. Personally I feel its enough, it is ultimately a trust issue and if she is lying about that, what else is she lying about?
     
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    Whoa I was only kidding but did you say 5 figures?

    That's serious (srs)

    Things pretty awkward at teh Vyb house? :eek:
     
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    In a no-fault state you can get a divorce because it's Thursday. You might want to look into it
     
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    Yeah, looks like about $25,000. Could be more once the smoke clears.

    It's not me. It's my nucca Voodoo Doll.
     
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    And assume it has happened before, to a smaller degree, and you paid that off awhile ago.
     
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    It's your friend's call. What does he want to do?

    It sounds like his wife might have some......issues
     
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    Pay it off. Then ask for insane sexual favors into perpetuity. I would demand
    that she give you her butt at least once a week, hopefully she will hate it...
     
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    He doesn't know what to do. She's the mother of his kid, and he adores that kid. She's a pretty good mom but def has issues.
     
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    :bigthink
     
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    :facepalm:

    Who is expected to pay off this debt?

    That's a pretty serious secret... and not the first time it's happened? Yikes.

    Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me?

    That being said, it's probably something I would be willing to forgive. Love the sinner, hate the sin mentality, I guess.