You cheated on your mate but you still love them. Wellhow can you love them if you cheat on them? I don't know the power of the flesh makes one weak. If this beautiful blonde at work ask me to fuck her I will because I am weak and also I lust after her but after I fuck her, do I love my mate even less? No. Will I leave her for the blonde? No. Do I feel guilty? No.Why should I? Will it hurt me if my mate fools around? Of course, I'll leave her but she'll me another chance. Life is fun that way. Stay warm when you areled into temptation.