It would be nice if you know what the fuck your mate wants. You ask them and they say nothing but you know it's something. If you want out of the relationship say so and be with who or what that makes you happy. If you’re sad about something why bring me down when I am trying to lift you up. Some people don't want to be happy because it's hard to manipulate and throw pity parties when you're happy. Stay warm while being a fool for only one day only.