Life isn't fair. There are no "happily ever after" Hollywood endings, where things balance out. Once life isn't fair, its stays that way. Bad things happen to good people and good things happen to bad people, and most of the time, "life" does not correct that. Don't bother trying to find a reason for this. Many people don't get what they deserve, and many get what they don't deserve. Again, don't bother trying to find a reason for this. I believe in God. I just don't try to understand what He's doing. Its better to be lucky than talented. Its better to be good-looking than talented. Its better to be funny than talented. Funny people are popular, even if they are complete jerks otherwise. Too much money often leads to disaster. Children of wealthy parents are usually fucked up somehow. You only need enough money to not worry about bills and buy a few nice things for yourself. You can't make someone love you. Either they do or they don't. Loving someone in vain is among the most painful things in life. Discovering girls can be the best or the worst day of your life. Marriage is a wonderful thing, if you marry the right woman. If you don't, it can be hell on earth. So choose wisely. If you get ill, you'd better take care of yourself. Nobody is coming around to save you from death if you wait too long.