My husband and I have an open marriage. I date other men often, yet my husband has pretty much stayed monogamous. I enjoy meeting and playing with other men. My husband has tried to hook up with other women, but he has had very little luck. When my husband has met and tried being with other women, he got nervous and wasn't able to perform. I have never had that problem. The question I would like to pose is . . . would you allow your wife/girlfriend to play, sexually, with other men? And if given the chance, would you want to play with other women? I am 45 yrs old. My husband is 51. We are not young, but we love to have a good time, like everyone else. What are your thoughts on this subject?