Well... there's trouble in paradise.

Discussion in 'The Bar' started by deverrant, Mar 15, 2014.

  1. deverrant

    deverrant VIP Extreme Gold

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    So the man and I got in a fight last night.
    Toward the end I told him he needs to think about how he's speaking to me before he speaks, and ask himself if he'd tolerate me speaking to HIM that way.
    His response was "I don't care".

    Sooo, we fell asleep angry, with our backs to each other, that kinda thing...

    Barely spoke a word to each other while I got ready for work this morning, and parted ways with a simple "See ya" as opposed to the usual "I love you".

    I waited a few hours, then finally texted him.
    Basically said that I love him and I'll stick by him through thick and thin, but that he needs to think about how he talks to me and treats me. I shouldn't have to walk on eggshells to avoid saying or doing something to piss him off or draw a snippy response, and that's how I've been feeling lately. I said that I'm not needy, but what I can't get over is feeling like I'm not respected, or being told that he "doesn't care" about my feelings. I said that's not fair and I don't deserve it, so please just think about these things.

    That was at about 1. He texted me at about 8 and said "I don't know what to say right now".

    I replied "Well, I said what I had to. Just think about it and say what you feel, when you're ready."

    Then he replied "Like I said I don't know how I feel."

    To which I said "I understand. When you figure it out, let me know."

    Sooo... I kind of have a plan. But who knows what the next few days will hold. :dontknow:


    *sigh*
     
  2. Stan Beeman

    Stan Beeman Well-Known Member VIP

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    I'm single
     
  3. Satori Brah

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    2nd
     
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    VAsiCkBoy Well-Known Member

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    wanna fuck?
     
  6. deverrant

    deverrant VIP Extreme Gold

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    :jj:

    ...thanks, guys.
     
  7. Reggae Mistress

    Reggae Mistress Old Catcher's Mitt

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    Ok, what's the plan?
     
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    VAsiCkBoy Well-Known Member

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    buncha fucking horny toads in here tonight :jj:
     
  9. wetback

    wetback #1 Asshole VIP

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    he's cheating on you! Guaranteed!
     
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    My GF and I got into a minor fight last night and went to sleep angry too. I realized I was being a dick, called and apologized after she left.

    So....she made me a chicken parm dinner, had makeup sex, and she left so I can watch the UFC tonight. Winning!
     
  11. VAsiCkBoy

    VAsiCkBoy Well-Known Member

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    here....you can cry on my shoulder if you want. :giggle:
     
  12. artiesoffspring

    artiesoffspring Hugs and kisses

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    I've got a bitching 1971 Winnebago.
     
  13. VAsiCkBoy

    VAsiCkBoy Well-Known Member

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    I love being single! :owned:
     
  14. Dream Theater

    Dream Theater DAWGS E-BULLY Squad Gold

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    I'll bang ya in that fur coat. Revenge sex. :marx:
     
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    Chief I'm all sixes & sevens & nines Staff Member

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    The make up sex should be epic Dev. :cool:
     
  16. deverrant

    deverrant VIP Extreme Gold

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    I'm thinking I'll put my foot down... I'm going to put distance between us. I won't see him until he's ready to apologize or at least talk. And even if he does, via text or something, I plan to stay away for a bit. Maybe make him realize what he stands to lose.

    However, he's a very stubborn guy. I'm concerned that his reaction may be "fuck you, if that's how you want it, that's how you'll have it." And that's NOT how I want it. I don't wan t to lose him; I'd like to work this out.
    Though I suppose someone who would react that way is not someone I should want to be with?
     
  17. BaddFunn

    BaddFunn Kick ass fuck yeah VIP

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    what did he say that pissed you off?
     
  18. DarkFriday

    DarkFriday Fired as a MOD...Twice. Gold

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    Is this the young guy you started with after the last one went psycho on you? :wtf:
     
  19. dawg

    dawg In The Dog House Staff Member

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    Dump the scum bag. Better yet send him down here to Texas. I will teach him the proper way to treat a woman.
     
  20. Gitfiddle

    Gitfiddle Live Deliciously

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    Pity that Dev is a woman.