1. Do they poke fun at her in a friendly sibling way? 2. Do they worship Howard and are thrilled to have him as an in-law? 3. Are they proud she landed a big fish and is rich? 4. Do they laugh at her and act straight to her face? 5. Are they protective and pissed how she ended up with him instead of a regular guy? 6. Are they concerned how wacky she's become? 7. Are they so distanced that it doesn't matter? 8. Are they sad she won't have kids? 9. Are they proud of her career in cats? 10. Are they jealous that she hit the lotto? Or something else? If they're as all American as they've been represented, some brotherly concern must kick in??