What do you do with people in your life who want to reconnect after long absences?

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  1. A Succulent Chinese Meal

    A Succulent Chinese Meal Message Board Poster VIP

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    I need the opinions of normal people.
     
  2. Gas Face

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    i like this gif

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  3. Reggae Mistress

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    Not waste much thought or time on them.
     
  4. gwartney

    gwartney Is there gas in the car? VIP

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    I let them blow me.
     
  6. Vol

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    Depends who they are.
     
  7. Lemmy

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    Good luck with that here. :toptip:
     
  8. Stew Nod

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    It's easy to get dropped from my loop, hard to get back in :grad:
     
  9. Reggae Mistress

    Reggae Mistress Old Catcher's Mitt

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    Nope.
     
  10. gilaet

    gilaet forum Tommy Jarvis Gold

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    Borrow money from them.
     
  11. Dream Theater

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    Below your screen name it says leave you alone. I think that answers your own question.
     
  12. Reggae Mistress

    Reggae Mistress Old Catcher's Mitt

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    I wouldn't say it's easy to get dropped from mine but once you are out...it's almost impossible to get back in.
     
  13. Stew Nod

    Stew Nod Well-Known Member Banned User

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    weight the benefits vs negatives of being around them...also try and really remember why you lost contact in the first place. It's easy to forget how much folks bothered you if you haven't seen them for a while
     
  14. newcastlefan

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    no normal people here
     
  15. Ano

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    Tell them you are really busy right now and you'll call them back.
     
  16. Stew Nod

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    As I get older I'm quicker to weed my garden...no time for lewzers
     
  17. Mlaw

    Mlaw Quite Contrarian VIP Gold

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    then why are you here?
     
  18. fenderbaum

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    What was the reason for the disconnect Bob? That would weigh heavily on my answer.
     
  19. fenderbaum

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    I am glad to be a RM looper.
     
  20. VeeB

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    I usually ignore them until they go away.