I notice that you titled your list where you would eat lunch with guys as Non-Gay Lunch at a Bar w/ a Dude. Are we the reader then to infer that you have had Gay Lunches at bars w/ dudes? Because if you haven't why then label having lunch with guys as Non-Gay Lunch at a Bar w/ a Dude? Why not just lunch at a bar w/dude? Lunch is a pretty platonic meal it's not like dinner where it's evening and you might be looking to get laid or breakfast where that could imply waking up with someone. Just looking for some explanation please don't get all pissy.