Woman Situation - Someone explain this to me

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  1. agnes

    agnes Big Sexy VIP Gold

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    There is this smoke bartender that works at the local pub. I've talked to her occasionally but not much. A week ago I am with my buddy, just got off work so only about three deep. This girl had gotten off of work at 9 or so and was sitting with two dudes drinking. She came over and sat next to me and said those other guys were creepy. Small talk, lots of touching on her part, typical flirting signs. My buddy sees what is going on and says he has to leave. This girl then finds out we will be going close to the same spot on New Year Eve. She tells me to take down her number and let her know when Im heading there. I text her phone with my number so it saves.

    That night she texted me several times as I was home relaxing. I have initiated nothing at this point.

    Next day neither of us texts each other.

    New year I text her I am going down. No reply. A few hours later sent a text that I was out. no reply. No texting since that point.

    Saw her tonight and she was working. Wasn't awkward at all but she was flirting again.

    Should I keep contacting this broad or what? I know bartenders work for bigger tips but at least the initial encounter wasn't that. Never had a girl show interest like that then not reply :fil:

    Also she used to date one of my coworkers apparently, so I don't know if that factors into it
     
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    Fillmore Fingers Sandy Vag Banned User

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    I would just ask her out straight up. Most women can't handle it, but if she's into you, she'll just say yes.

    If not, no harm done.
     
  3. jcounce1

    jcounce1 Well-Known Member

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    I've done this to girls many times. She probably was with another guy on New Years. She seems interested. Your day will come. She overbooked herself, is what it looks like.
     
  4. RobotsVsMonsters

    RobotsVsMonsters Semi-lurker since 2008

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    Chicks who are even decent looking are getting hit on 24/7. "Overbooked" is the perfect way to put it. You didn't pounce fast enough so she had to find some new dick. When chicks want a dude, they don't like to be patient, for the most part.
     
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    RobotsVsMonsters Semi-lurker since 2008

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    Or she heard you're on a Howard stern message board and said, "fuck that"
     
  6. beetlejosh

    beetlejosh Naw man, I don't eat dragon. Gold

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    Unless she was knee deep in dick, you'd think she would at least text something back though.

    Chicks always be texting. Drank in one hand, phone in the other (if my original scenario wasn't playing out).
     
  8. jcounce1

    jcounce1 Well-Known Member

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    I'd still work it. Considering the fact that I have a penis. I try not to think about these things too much.
     
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    CCMaguire Well-Known Member VIP

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    If she gave you her number and it's legitimate, she's interested. All you can do is straight up ask her out if you want. Who knows why she didn't get back to you on NYE? Probably made other plans in the meantime since you really didn't officially ask her out for New Year's.

    p.s.---This is advice from a female.
     
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    Smoke bartender?
    What the fuck is that?
     
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    Pic?
     
  12. Johnnykstaint

    Johnnykstaint A real one way mother f-er 2010 OG Gold

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    Almost 100% certain thats what happened.
     
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    jcounce1 Well-Known Member

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    I hope he is knee deep as we speak.
     
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    Here's what happened... the night she came over to talk to you she was probably looking for some company and ran into those guys she called creepy. You were option 2. It sounds like you guys hit it off etc. but I doubt neither you nor her have any real interest for the simple fact that all you guys did was text each other. Pick up the damn phone and call her if you really want to start something. Better yet next time you see her let her know you want 2 minutes of her time and just ask her if she wants to hang out after work or whatever. This new age of hiding behind text message is nonsense. I see girls doing this shit all the time.
     
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    Stop pussy footing around. Find out what nights she doesn't work and ask her out to dinner for one of those nights. If she goes - great. If not - she's playing with you for some reason.

    Take back the power from her. Right now you're acting wimpy.
     
  16. Turtle Man

    Turtle Man Hello Darling

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    A barmaid? You might wanna pass on that my freng
     
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    She serves the Devil's drink for money. This harlot is not worth your time or effort.
     
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    Turkeyneck Howard's got one, not me Gold

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    she gave you a fake number, likely one of the creepy guys'. keep trying though, he's probably warming to the idea, but a bit confused.
     
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    Lumbergh fucked her.

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    Ask her out. If she says some bullshit like "I'm so busy right now" or "I'm actually sorta seeing someone right now" be a gentleman about it and say that's ok and be nice to her. That will drive her crazy.


    Tbh I doubt she's genuinely interested in you. If a woman really likes you she makes sure to keep in contact until you ask her out. She may find you attractive or like you on some level but you may not fit all criteria of what she's looking for in a boyfriend.